What would you do Wednesday!
A friend of yours is in Bible college. He is 23 years old and became a Christian when he was 20. He met a great Christian lady who is also in Bible college. They recently became engage, but he has a dilemma.
His fiancée is also 23 and saved at 20. Before becoming a Christian she was a bit promiscuous. In fact, your friend was also promiscuous before coming to the Lord – maybe more so than his fiancée.
The fiancée understands their promiscuous past has been forgiven and is behind them in their old life. However, your friend’s dilemma is that he cannot seem to get over his fiancée’s past sexual indiscretions. Her past bothers him to the point where he is not sure he is ready to move forward with the marriage. At the same time, he thinks that once married his ill-feelings will go away. He needs your advice.
What would you do?
- Go ahead with the marriage then things will get better.
- Get counseling and forge ahead with the marriage.
- Get counseling, but do not go forward until he can accept Christ has forgiven her.
- Tell him to get over his double-standard or become a monk.
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